tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post319601126653719130..comments2023-05-01T17:26:08.551+05:30Comments on Personal Orbit Change: It's not the end of the road...Maullika Sharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02089391630639045063noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-80159789673971755302016-11-26T02:24:01.068+05:302016-11-26T02:24:01.068+05:30Thank you so much mam and yes mam i have read your...Thank you so much mam and yes mam i have read your article "SEE THE LION IN MIRROR', its very inspiring. keep this good work going it surely is helping many of us. I follow your articles, also read your answers given which are published in deccan herald. most wonderful part is that, as i write to you i know that you will definitely respond and trust me its a confidence booster. Thank you so much once again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-2155610244580681172016-11-25T10:30:21.713+05:302016-11-25T10:30:21.713+05:30Thank you for writing in. Having got through your ...Thank you for writing in. Having got through your MBBS itself qualifies you as a 'success' so I am not sure where your feeling of failure is coming from. You are already a doctor and, as you say, have good clinical skills. After the educational training, what differentiates one doctor from another, is not only his/her knowledge but also his/her empathy and ability to relate to people. Very often society reflects back to you what you are feeling about yourself. You are feeling like a failure and dejected, and therefore are thinking that that is what society is thinking about you. Often you need to look at yourself in the mirror in a more positive light and that changes things around. http://personalorbitchange.blogspot.in/2010/09/see-lion-in-mirror.html<br />I strongly urge you to take the help of a counsellor and talk through your emotions. It is very helpful to be able to do that and will go a long way in winning your confidence back. You have much to be proud of already. Don't let the world allow you to start thinking any other way. Good luck! Maullika Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02089391630639045063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-19287120804632850102016-11-24T21:03:10.974+05:302016-11-24T21:03:10.974+05:30Your articles are very near to realistic/factual l...Your articles are very near to realistic/factual life scenario, thank you for helping us. Mam, i have finished my MBBS [MBBS doctor] and aspiring for post graduation. And you very well know that most of us are not so lucky enough to get in. Trying and writing these entrance exams since 3 years no luck so far, this year coming December again for the 4th time i'll be sitting for the exam [ of course with lot of dejection/frustration]. You are aware that without PG we the new doctors only with MBBS degree seems to have no bright future [ it is again the popular view of society], though we venture out with our practical/clinical skills still we are treated has FAILURES and it is heart breaking :( . I'm pretty good at practical/clinical approach in treating but this injected feeling of failure from the surroundings is eating me up from within. Faced failure, learning from it as well but sailing through this aftermath effect is becoming difficult as days are rolling. Added to this now the family situations are such that it has confined me to four walls of the house since one year. It all started with low self esteem and low-no self confidence and has ended up here. never tried the breaking the wall technique and seeking help, thought this time i'll gather some courage and speak out. Thank you Mam once again .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-51542000804073299122016-02-14T21:09:59.259+05:302016-02-14T21:09:59.259+05:30I think it will help you tremendously to take the ...I think it will help you tremendously to take the help of a counsellor to understand yourself and how you are interpreting the world better. I don't know which city you are from, but if you can access a counsellor please do so so that you can resolve the conflicts and doubts in your mind and go ahead. I practice in Bangalore.Maullika Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02089391630639045063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-89054248189828388532016-02-14T10:58:36.401+05:302016-02-14T10:58:36.401+05:30Mam I am student of engineering final year who had...Mam I am student of engineering final year who had high aspirations of becoming a scientist I was so determined that i was not interested in doing medical as per the wishes of my family.i was a good academic performer also. I was confident of clearing my interwiews but finally landed in an it job. I often compare my self to all my frnds who have got better jobs..now I feel I am not technically good. I am depressed I cannot study anything I fell lost please helpAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-39280725789376360532015-05-25T15:47:51.432+05:302015-05-25T15:47:51.432+05:30 Thank you for the help. Thank you for the help. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-6208464927968456272015-05-25T14:59:20.676+05:302015-05-25T14:59:20.676+05:30I am glad you find my articles helpful. When one p...I am glad you find my articles helpful. When one path closes, another one will open, provided you allow yourself to see it and accept it. Understand your motivation and the options available before you. Understand your own strengths and weaknesses and then make your decisions. If you need help from a counsellor, either see someone face to face, or call 080 65333323 and get the free help of a phone counsellor. All the bestMaullika Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02089391630639045063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-88498100159307450872015-05-25T14:33:14.808+05:302015-05-25T14:33:14.808+05:30Dear madam,
I have read many article of yours they...Dear madam,<br />I have read many article of yours they have helped me a lot during my difficult times.I just finished my 12th(CBSE) exam getting 64%.I wanted to do medical but,due to my low scores i'm not able to.I did not concentrate on my studies during my 12th as i used to get distracted easily which in turn decreased my scores.I'm not able to understand what to do now.I want to become a doctor and help the poor.But i don't think there is any way now by which i can get into medical.My parents are not happy with my score.Can you please help me. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-3854753618001726132014-04-28T17:53:57.847+05:302014-04-28T17:53:57.847+05:30Yes madam, Surely I'll consult a counselor and...Yes madam, Surely I'll consult a counselor and Thank You for your valuable response. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-79552974142845955242014-04-28T12:34:48.160+05:302014-04-28T12:34:48.160+05:30Thank you for your comments. I am glad you are fin...Thank you for your comments. I am glad you are finding my writings useful. I really urge you to seek some counselling to help you interpret your failures. Failure is never fatal unless we allow it to. Some failure is inevitable and it only makes us stronger, provided we choose to learn from it. Since you have recognized this pattern, I urge you to please get help. It will allow you to live life in a more complete way. All the bestMaullika Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02089391630639045063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-126940934930552097.post-1704856127186643462014-04-28T11:51:28.928+05:302014-04-28T11:51:28.928+05:30Dear Madam,
I had been reading your articles from ...Dear Madam,<br />I had been reading your articles from many years and its really good.I want to share my thoughts about failure.When success comes to me I'll be very happy and from many years I had discovered that I'm not able to face failures.Even when I watch movies if something goes wrong with the hero or heroine I just get out of the room or just close my ears and eyes.And even in my life if failure comes my way I cant face it and only think of escaping from failure.And even I'm bothered about the society if failed I cannot tolerate the nonsense talking of people, their teasing and all.I think of taking it as challenge and then again I would think If I fail again.I m not only speaking about academics but also other aspects of the life.I think if this happens again and again I wont be able to face the failures in my life.and even I feel my decision making is very poor because of which I'm facing failures.Please help me to overcome such situations of my life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com